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Alright, this is the thing. I HATE my highschool. Really, HATE it. So I've been pretty much miserable, which is why I've been skipping alot, and now I found out..because of this, I might not graduate. Now you'll probably never understand my culture, but there's nothing more important than education, My father has said it straight to my face "I don't care abotut your happiness, as long as you get into a GREAT university, and have straight A's" and last night he said "Go study! If you have any B's this year, I'll be really dissapointed, and you won't be my daughter!" And when I tried to tell him how dumb that is he said "I've only ever asked you for ONE thing in your life, and that's good grades, just that one thing..I think it's reasonable to ask you to do good in that" or something along those lines. I'm so scared :S and the thing is, since I've feared my father basically my whole life, I've never told him th truth about my grades, my mom has covered up for me, and told him I get straight A's even though I don't. And we were going to do that this year too, but now we can't..because I might not graduate. I can't stop crying, because it seems like there's no solution..I can not get anyone else involved, I can't ask my mother to help me anymore..I just can't. And I CAN NOT talk to my father, it's just not in my culture. So please..don't suggest any of those things. But..what can I do? Is there anything? Please help me :'(

Thank you!

Okay you know something it happend to my sister and she justsinged up for summer school and then got those credits and then started the last 2 or three classes she needed to pass in september so best thing to tell you is speak to your guidance counselor about what you can do and the same thing im telling you she's gonna tell you so dont pressure yourself because the more credits you've earned or messed up on and earned them back is gonna look good on your college recomendation and the way the teachers will talk about you to the college supervisors would be good that would see where you made an effort to get things done and you proved it to everyone so please believe me it will work just beleive in yourself you can achieve
Yours Truley Bella

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