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Q: okay i have this x- friend. we were friends for about a year and then all of a sudden she started getting weird. like she said she was bi and then said she was joking, but i dont think she was. and shes really creepy to be around, like she got a weird haircut, but i dont wanna talk to her. am i wrong?
Eh. I sort of went through this with my friends. I'm bisexual and I came out in 7th grade and my friends were wierd because they thought that I had crushes on them.. then we all matured and I told them last year (10th grade year) & noone even cared. I still ahve all my friends that I've had for years and everything is great. I dont think that you should not be her friend just because of her sexuality. If she has totally changed though than thats different. If you dont like her as a person anymore in general (not just her sexuality) than you're not in the wrong. Some friends just grow apart, and theres nothing anyone can do to fix it. So basically what I'm trying to say is.. if I were in the position, I wouldnt stop being friends with someone because I disagreed with their views or sexuality or anything of that nature. I'm friends with people because I can trust them, be myself around them & have fun with them. As long as they treat me good, then it doesnt matter.

Make sure if your not going to be her friend, its for the right reasons, not the wrong ones.

thank u...ur from another point of view...thanks again

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