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My friends have always said I've been good at giving advice, so I'm trying this so i can help more people. Dont get mad if I'm bad at this pleease. =Plittle info:
age: 16
sex: male
grade: junior
sign: aquarius
advice
well i need major help
-i don't know what to do because my parents dont except me and i dont kn ow how to make them
-i have been grounded for 3 weeks because i didnt go to tutoring and they did it purposely to ruin my social life
-they even told me that they were taking my social life away.
-my friends are starting to know
-i feel like someone could shoot me and no one would care
-i used to hate school and love to come home, but now i would rather be anywhere than at home
-my mom makes me tell her about my feelings and then she goes and tells all of her friends
-i cant trust anyone now, not even my parents
-how can i make my life just a little better?
i will rate high and i need answers soon!
xXxheartbrokenxXx
Well.. honestly, what you're going through, at least about 90% of teenagers go through. I say you should try and talk to your parents, especially if you even used to like coming home to your family. but don't get too discouraged if you still don't get anywhere.
Just remember that while your problems aren't unimportant, because to you i know they are, they're things that most everybody goes through. You're not alone, or nearly alone in feeling this way, really. About your mom making you tell her things.. telling her things will help open things up between you. but tell her that it bothers you when she tells other people about it. your problems are yours, and you can share them with who you want, not for her to share as she wants.
If you want to make your life better.. just do things that make you feel good. remember to still do your schoolwork and that, but either have fun with friends, or, when you're grounded, do some hobbies.. draw, write, listen/sing to music, make music, make models.. just find something to keep you entertained and occupied. at the least it takes your mind off of the bad things.
~Andrew
(Rating: 5) thanks i will seriously take this into concideration