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Q: THere is this boy that I have been friends with since kindergarten and now im in seventh and hes in eighth grade. We have always been really good friends, but now I am really starting to like him in a different way. I think he might also, even though he says he like someone else. But he always asks me who I like and I just say "i dont know" because Im not sure if he really likes me. But we have also gotten alot closer. like Ill lean on him and stuff when we would never do that before. I would really like to date him, but im scared that if I date him now that we wont have a deeper relationship later on in our lives. Im also worried that we would stop being friends when if we break up. I know im only in seventh grade, but ive always dreamed of spending the rest of my life with this guy. Can anyone help me? Ill rate
If this guy is your best friend, I dont think that you should date him because if you guys do break up you guys aren't going to be friends again. You guys are still in middle school and its just so young to be thinking about spending the rest of your life with someone. I think you two should just continue being friends until your friendship has grown stronger. If you guys just stay as best friends then you two will go a long way, but when being in a relationship it changes everything. Staying friends is always the best. I know you might not like this answer, but it is true most of the time and I wouldn't want you to regret it. Hope this helps!

-Manda

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ItzMzManda
Hey everyone! So I've been away from this website for a few years and I've recently stumbled upon it again. I feel that I'm more experienced to give mo and better advice. I've grown and developed so much these past few years that I have a completely different mentality from when I first found this site. 

Enough about that, well it's nice to meet you all and my name is Amanda! I hope to really help by giving the best advice I can. I'll always be free and open to help anyone out so don't hesitate :)

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