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Q: well i have this problem..i really hate myself i think i'm stupid fat and totally ugly! my mom always tells me i'm not and i'm soooo pretty but i think she's just saying that cause she's my mom! and well a lot of grown up's are also telling me i'm the most pretty girl the've ever seen but in my school people always tell me i'm ugly except my best friend but i think she's also just saying that cause she's my friend! and i really dont get it .. all the grown up people think i'm soo pretty and they tell me that when im not even asking! but in school everybody says im ugly and everytime i look in the mirrow i start crying! i dont know whats wrong with me! i wanna like me but i really hate me! can anybody tell me how i get myself to like me again? please!!!!! i'll rate high for good advice
Well, their all telling you your pretty because I'm sure you are. Everyone is beautiful in their own way. Just tell yourself that you are gorgeous, and you will start to believe it. The only reason you dont is because everyone in school is telling you your not. The definition of pretty in high school is platinum blonde hair, blue eyes, skinny, and medium height. Which is so unaccurate its not even funny. Sweetie just look in the mirror and say "Im gorgeous because I'm me" & that should be enough. Dont let what others say get to you, its just jealousy, trust me. & in high school what other people think NEVER matters, because once you graduate, it really wont matter. noone will even care what you looked like in that school picture, or the "horrible" outfit you wore.. so why let it get to you now when everyone is going to forget it in 5 years. :)

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