Member Since: April 1, 2006 Answers: 8 Last Update: April 3, 2006 Visitors: 942
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Okay, this might be a question people get asked alot but, I was goin out with the perfect boy. I really loved him alot and he told me he did too. We were together 6 months and then one week he didnt talk to me much. He had my best friend dump me for him then he went to her and asked her out. She called herself my best friend but she said yes. Isnt there some "girl code" thing that says "dont go out with your best friends ex boyfriend"?? I love them both and its hard to be mad at her but what she did hurt me. I tryed talking to her about it but she just yelled at me. What do i do? (link)
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If my boyfriend broke up with me and asked my BFF out and she said yes, I would have talked to her too. But if she yelled at you (that's such a horrible feeling, I know) I would have been madder at her.
You should tell her (if your sorry): Our friendship is to strong to give up over a boy. We shouldn't be doing this. You are one of my closest friends, and I love you. I feel that your friendship is more important than any boy. Since (ex-boys name) and I have broken up, I support him and you 100%. I trust your judgement. I am sorry for overreacting, and being to sensative.
If you aren't sorry you shouldnt be sorry for something that you didn't do, and thats IS totally outta line for a friend to go out with an ex (unless youve been broken up for more than a year)
But really, you need to talk to your friend and the first thing you say is "Can I say something without you interupting?"
Good Luck,
xosamantha
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thanks so much i took your advice i talked to her. I didnt appologize she did first so I told her I would support her if she didn't talk about them and what they do or anything and she agreed. We're friends again =]=]=] thanks so much again!!
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