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Since I was the previous poster where you said and I quote.

"While I disagree with the previous response for using you as a target of personal issues"

You are targeting me...as a previous poster, so thank you very much.

Now here's the question, so you do agree that a 13 year old should have sex, let alone anal sex? Nevermind that you told her how to make it more comfortable.

The purpose of this website is to answer questions people may have, not to bash their choices (whether for good or bad). Refraining from giving an honest answer is not going to stop someone from having sex, in fact it's more likely to set up the person to discover the bad side of sexuality, the hard way.
As to the poster, they do meet the rules of this community. They are of minimum age and did place the question in the "Sex" category. No, I may not care for the age, but that's not the point. The question wasn't if they were doing something appropriate and I'd rather they know the truth than the fluffy answer of "you shouldn't be having sex".

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(Rating: 1) Advice is all about giving an opinion unless you are posting facts. I did not say "you shouldn't be having sex" The fact is: we were discussing anal sex and a 13 year old child. I am appalled that you gave her advice that would encourage her to do that. The point is while sex can be wonderful, there is a dark side when it comes to children having children and sexually transmitted diseases. I feel it is important that anyone who is sexually active knows the "dark side". Your answer to my response and hers was beyond "fluffy". Someday when you grow up and have a teenager maybe you'll think differently.
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