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MY boyfriend and I have been going out for over a year, but for the last couple months we've been going out in secret while he rebuilds the friendships he lost. Innocent right? Not really.
Now, all he does is joke around about liking these other girls and then will be like "jk, i love you". He hurts me all the time. His myspace doesnt have one mention of me, his 'girlfriend' and 'best friend' but at least 5 things for this other girl. He wrote this poem to my other friend and now he's entering into a contest. He's always in a bad mood around me but act likes the perfect guy around everyone else. I understand he's trying to get his friends back, but I really want to be treated like I mean something to him. Online, he hardly talks to me! Sometimes 10 minutes will elapse before he'll say "ok" or "cool". I don't know what to do! The only time he acts like a real boyfriend is when we're hanging out just the two of us. He always sends me parts of conversations with other girls that I don't want to see and I tell him not to send it but he does anyways.
Am i just overreacting, or reading too much into it? I'm pretty sure he loves me, but all his 'jokes' about liking other girls is starting to make me question our relationship. I feel forgotten and talking to him about it makes everything worse. He just says I complain too much or im 'abusive'. I love him so much and I'm so confused! All the stuff he used to do to me he does for other people while i just stand on the sidelines being jealous.
Help!!
Reading this over i sound ridiculous but I'm really hurt and this whole this is both emotionally and physically draining. (link)
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you might as weel face the facts... hes trying to move on in secret and find someone else before getting rid of you so he doesnt have to be alone. if he cant yell out loud to everyone that you are his gf. my bf loved me but he did the same thing and it led to soo many other problems. my advice is get out now or stop letting him hide you and if he doesnt want to be with you after you tell him that you dont want your relationship to be a secret then he doesnt repect you and he obviously has something to hide. sorry i know this prolly isnt want you wanted to hear but im trying to asve you from the pain that you will feel if i think what is going on actually is.
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Thanks, it's not waht i wanted to hear but I know you're absolutely right..
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