About Swe3ti3boO
Well, having gone through alot of struggles in my life, if there's anything I've learned its that that one saying "what doesn't kill you, will only make you stronger" this is SO true.
My screen name or nickname takes after the nickname my father gave me, however he's no longer here but I know he's up there watching me. Other than that, there have been quite a few, well, more than a few struggles that I've had to endure throughout my 17 years and I'm still going through stuff now. I'm not your average 17 y/o and I don't say that on false pretense, get to know me and you'll see.
My overcoming of struggles has taught me so much about life, alot more than school, even though the struggles may have caused me much anger and pain, I'm still here standing.
hm.. well, I've been a Boxer for the past 12 years. I stopped for a little moment for personal reasons (I'm one of the highest ranked Boxers of my class which landing me a job that I ultimately love;; I'm also a trainer in other words, I now have my own students who I can annoy the crap out of...) hehe
Anyways, I've put down the website thats linked to all my other profiles, hope you enjoy but even if you don't, noone said you had to. If theres definitly one thing about me, its that I'm real, I may come off harsh, but please understand, its just me being honest and straight forward. I'm doing this to help people, which is the best feeling in the world.
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Website: Swe3ti3 boO
Gender: Female
Location: New York
Occupation: Boxing Instructor
Age: 17
AIM: Swe3ti3boO
Yahoo: Swe3ti3boO
Member Since: September 19, 2005
Answers: 31
Last Update: April 14, 2006
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My friend has gone through a lot lately. Her mom had breast cancer and went through kemo. Now her dad has cancer and has to go through kemo. How can I help her and her family?
At this point the best thing for you to do it stay by her side. Thats all you really can do. Her parents are going through such a hard situation where undoubtedly it is carrying their daughter right along with them throughout the whole ordeal. Having one parent be diagnosed with cancer is one thing, the treatment is a whole other thing;; worst part of it is, shes having to deal with it coming from BOTH parents. Try talking to her about it, if shes comfortable; talk to her about things that will help her take it off her mind; take her out as much as you can, although she will most likely want to always stay by her parents side. When shes not with them, take her to the movies, bowling even bingo. Just do silly things. Don't forget along each minute that passes she will be thinking "Is this the minute my mom/dad is going to die?"; be ready to buy a load of tissue boxes and have a ton of soaked shoulders. This is no easy job. Give her all the words of encouragement, go to your local library, rent out books with quotes or better yet, print a few out; including poems.
When it comes to her family, the best thing you can possibly to for them; is doing what you're doing right now, keeping them in your prayers; visiting as often as you can and giving them all the treats && goodies they want. Don't forget to throw a few kicks && giggles for old times sake~!
Best Of Luck~!
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thx so much fr your help i should try it
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