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hey there, I'm Lauren.
i have amazing friends who i love.
especially my best friend taylor. he's the bomb.
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i love dealing with other people's problems so i'm not focused on my own.
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xx Lauren
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Ok so here it goes this may be long and im sorry if it is. Ok Im 15/f and my boyfriend and i have been going together off-and-on for almost 2 years now. I love him soo much i just cant seem to get him out of my mind.The last time we broke up was the worse,and i started dating other people well about 4 months later so did he and it really hurt me alot. Well we actually stopped talking and i lost my bestfriend of 11 years over it. Well a few months past and we still didnt talk and he finally called me oneday and we started talking again but i had a boyfriend. I finally broke up with the other guy and me and my ex got back together. Well last weekend he went off to his uncles house and promised he would be back by 7 but he wasnt...so another guy thats bestfriends with my cousin called and i needed a way to my dad's house and he was nice enough to run me and my friend down there. We never touched like as in kissin or huggin or nothin. And i like the other guy but not like that and my b/f thinks that i cheated on him but i honestly didnt. Everytime i tell him he doesnt say anything and he throws it up in my face alot. What should i do about this?
My friends tell me hes bein to controlling and to dump him...but i cant see my life without him in it.What should i do?
Ill rate 5's for any answers!!
Thanx,
Jessica!! 15/f (link)
Well, although he does seem controlling, I don't think you should dump him if you really love him. But does he know how much you care about him? You need to sit him down and say "look, I only got a ride with him because you weren't here, and I hope you would trust me enough to know I would never cheat on you because I love you." Something like that. Although it sounds bad, a good way might be to make him feel guilty. I hope everything works out, and I'm sure it will. You're friends don't understand how you feel about him, so don't let them make the decision for you.


Rating: 5
You are soo right...thanx soo much!!




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