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I'm a guy and 16 years old. I was just wondering if going anywhere or doing anything is ok for a first date (my first ever). It'll be this friday. I was thinking about a movie and then some dinner. Would that be ok? I'm pretty comfortable around her, but I'm not too sure if this would be better for later dates as opposed to the first one. Any other ideas or suggestions, things to remember? Are there any guidelines or rules that I should follow as the guy? It is true - guys are much more nervous than girls when it comes to this. Thanks in advance; will rate

Well, choose a movie that is comfortable for the both of you. Also, don't take her to a fancy fancy restaurant because you want somewhere that you two can feel comfortable with the natural elements (such as chemistry and something that you aren't too used to-yet sort of used to, you get me), some of which you possess. Throughout your date, you really should just try to think and talk about the things that make you and her comfortable. The environment, the conversation should be comfortable. It's really important. Also, don't think so much about it because dwelling on it sometimes makes matters worse. Just do you and be you. Whatever happens, happens. And you must know that it happens for a reason. Sometimes that reason is b/c it's just not meant to be and that's not so bad. However, be you and do you and you'll be fine. Don't worry so much. You'll get wrinkles.

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(Rating: 5) Thanks - don't want wrinkles
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