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i go to an all girl school, and I have am 17 years old. Ther is this this girl who is in my senior class, and she is constantly trying to demean me, embarras me, or yell at me in front of my friends. And all the friends that i have she feels like they are her friends too, so when i am talking to someone she will come and interupt our conversation and take control of everything. Any idea why she does this to me. I think it is because she has low self esteem and it makes her feel better to demean and embarass someone else. What do you think?? Please answer.

Hiya,

Your probably right! People try to embarass others when really they are so insecure of themselves, that the only way to make them feel better is to try & make someone else suffer. Well no you shouldnt have to face this. The best way to make it stop is to; when she interupts a conversation just say "Im so sorry, but i am talking to speak here, i'll speak to you when im done, is that okay" so your not patronising, but your not being rude either, this will show your not going to tolerate her behaviour. If she contines you'll have to tell her, point blank "Okay, i dont like what your doing i understand your a very weak individual, but i am not & i dont wish for you to treat me like this" Most importantly a note for yourself is to remember, she is the weak one in this & its not you! Its her problem, dont let it transfer to yourself! Sorry to go on, but thats my best advice, i hope this problem stops if you need any further info please email me @ ixmzfabulusxi@aol.com Good Luck! & Rise above it, your better than her!

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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much, you made feel so much better. Your awesome, thanks again, and I will try your advice.
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