I've made my mistakes, I have my faults, I've done my sins. I've been heart broken and have broken hearts as well. There's a lot I've seen, a lot I've heard, and a lot I've been through. I don't know everything but I have my opinions and if you ask me for adivce I will always try to help.
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Age: 15
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Hey, I'm 17/f
I was just wondering... how can you tell if you are in love? Are there signals he'll send you? I need any kind of advice because I think I'm in love but I'm not sure.
Thanks in advance! (link)
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Hey. Well since this isn't a RIGHT/WRONG answer sinc eit's not math or science I can only tell you what I think in my perspective. If we are talking about being IN LOVE (not just loving your boyfriend as a person... which most people don't even love their friends as people) then I think you need to think about a few things. Once, are you TRULY WILLING if the time came to sacrifise your happiness by letting him be with somebody else. Don't pay attention to the circumstances because it's a hypothetical situation. If you and him couldn't be together for a reason (...maybe you were moving, maybe it's a drastic soap opera moment where your parents send you to a convent, or maybe he stops liking you/loving you one day, just random examples) would you want him to be with somebody else (even if you didn't like the girl personally) who was a good person and made him happy? Of course it would be DIFFICULT to see it or accept it, but deep down, would you feel some sense of ease knowing that HE's happy? Be honest with yourself. Also, is there anything you could have that would make him dumping you ok? like if someone gave you an ipo and say a thousand dollars, would you be okay with it and move on with your life? Just things to think about. Lust and lvoe can be very confusing because lust is being crazy about someone but you're crazy about someone when you're in lvoe too. It's not common for people to actualy FALL IN LOVE when they are still teenagers but it's not impossible. Just think about your feelings and how honest and sincere they are and your intentions. Also think if you see a future with this guy and if you WANT a future with this guy (i'm not saying to start considering marriage, just think for a moment of the possiblity... does it scare you? does it weird you out? is it something convenient? something you could live with? or something you might really want someday?) Well don't open the door to strangers...
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