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Q: Im having trouble knowing weather to ask this girl out i really like (a lot). Im 14 years old and in 8th grade and theres this girl a year younger than me in the 7th grade. Im not like the nerdy unsociable kind of guy. I have a lot of friends and i get along with almost everyone. My friend told this girl i like her (i didnt want him too) and i kind of get the impression shes not intrested. i was planning on telling her i like her and asking her out but now i feel funny after he already said something. Shes considered a 'preppy' girl and my friend said she wont go for me cause im to 'skater'. The truth is i normally go for preppy girls and i like them more. Even though i like skating and into punk and shit, i dont know if i should take my friends advice and change my image then ask her or completly ignore asking her out all together. Its a hard decision cause i like her a lot.
First. Dont change your image. NEVER change for anyone, but yourself. If a girl doesnt like you because of what you dress like then shes extremely shallow & you dont need her anyways. Plus you wouldnt be happy dressing like you were someone else. If you really like her then go for it and take a chance. The worst that can happen is that she will say no, and thats not even that bad. So, definetely take a chance & ask her. You never know, she might say yes. =D. I hope she does! But yeah whatever you do, dont change yourself.

Great advice!, im gunna do what you suggested and not change my image but still ask her.

Thank you, Sean

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