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I've made my mistakes, I have my faults, I've done my sins. I've been heart broken and have broken hearts as well. There's a lot I've seen, a lot I've heard, and a lot I've been through. I don't know everything but I have my opinions and if you ask me for adivce I will always try to help.

p.s. LOVE IS VILE!!
E-mail: vilelove@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Occupation: student
Age: 15
Member Since: August 19, 2005
Answers: 135
Last Update: February 5, 2007
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im am an 8th grade girl
and i am currently going with a 7th grade guy
we're both 13, (today is his birthday, btw)
and we just started dating again.
-when i say again i mean that we've gone out in november for about a month.
we both like passionatly like eachother
the only semi-problem is is that
i am 5"7
and hes like 5"0 about.
it usually dosnt botehr me, but its just like when i dream about that "first true love" i always think of some one that can hold me in his arms, you know? i really really like this guy tho.
he makes me feel like i've never been hurt before, like i just found out what love is,
and im sure to say, i am pretty experienced and stuff
i just wanna feel like this guy is
a man who stands by my side,
and not a boy who runs and hides,
just please give me some tips to feel better about this,
thanks a lot.
i rate particuarly well.
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Hey. I don't know what to say but when I read what you wrote there was actually something I did want to say. You mentioned about how you pictured your first love and stuff. Well him being 5'0 and you being tallen is kind if cool. I mean, at first it'll be weird (I personally wouldn't do it cause subconsciously it does matter to me) but then you'll get used to it (you may be kind of used to it by now). Anyway, if anyting ever goes wrong and you guys break up (which most high school- especially middle school-relationships end up doing) one day when you're far over it and you think back to your 'first love' it'll be cute. It was... unique. Something you could only have with him. A lot of times the image represents the people. This physical differences that make you guys a unique coupple relfect non physical differences. And you'll also always remember how you felt about this guy. How he took away the wrong in everything that wasn't right. And how much you liked him and he liked you and how happy it made you guys. Take it from me, I lost the guy I came closest to loving and I wish we had that again... when I liked him and he liked me back. Regardless height/apperances/what other people think/etc. you guys have that and that is nothing to take for granted.
I'm sorry I wrote so long, it's a bad habbit or something. Well good luck and I hope you guys are really happy.


Rating: 5
you are so right! thanks a ton for making me feel so much better~ =)




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