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I'm here and will attempt to answer questions that relate to either your SPIRITUALITY or your HEALTH. I consider myself to be a very spiritual human being, not religious as I don't follow an organized religion's dogma.
My heart is my good book and I attempt to live life from that point of view. I have lived long enough to have gained some wisdom and feel I could have something worthwhile to share.
I've used herbs and natural supplements and followed a healthy lifestyle since the early 90's, in fact it was herbs and herbal supplements and some lifestyle changes that saved my life.
As there have been some pretty wonderful people that have helped me along my life's journey, it's simply my turn to give back and if I can help someone here, I'm glad to do that. Hope to hear from you with your questions and if I help just one other person during my experience here, it will have been worth it. Have a very Happy&Health new year everyone, you all deserve it!

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hey i'm a guy and have a girlfriend, i love her and everything. i was wondering...i havn't asked her yet, but would it be a bad thing if i sent valentines day cards to my friends that are girls? some of them i'm really good friends with and i wouldn't want to do it if it offended my girlfriend or let her think the wrong idea. should i just ask her about it, or am i over-analyzing things? i am getting my girlfriend a gift, but would it be wrong to send a few cards to my friends as well? what do you think, thanks in advance.

My first thought on this issue would be.... if she really is your girlfriend, and you have done your part to let her know you are a good and loyal guy.... then she shouldn't be 'bothered' by you sharing valentines card with your female friends. If you can't have both male and female friends, there is something not quite right about your relationship with your girlfriend. Why would she deny you having both m & f friends, the rest or most of us do!

If this issue causes problems with your girlfriend, I'd have to say, you already had problems. I wouldn't give it a second thought, I would give valentines to all my friends, I use to, but at this age(61) well, I've slowed down a bit, ha!

Don't worry about it. If your relationship with her is soooo fragile, you'd best look at it closer and either speak up about it and work it out between you, or find another girlfriend!

Hope this helps! Have a great heart day, my fav holiday!

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