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Q: 16 f. sophmore likes sophmore guy as well. never had a conversation with him. hell i doubt he knows i exist. but i still want to approach him.

1) He is scene or w/e and is quiet. he seems almost depressed. he just sits there at lunch with a friend or two and does nothing(though he is kind of popular) hes medium height. super skinny. pretty smile :]
2) i dont dress scene or goth or punk or ghetto or preppy so ive no clue wtf i am. im very shy. not too quiet but a lil quiet. short. im a lil chubby and i have a pretty face(like that matters all that matters are a hot body)

when i approach him what should i say?? could we ever be compatible? should i just give up all together? and how can i get him to notice me?
Sorry its long i rate 5's, thanx.
I know this sounds kinda lame, and everyone tells you to be yourself (which i completely support) but if you feel like he doesnt even notice your existance, i would do a little research on him.. find out his likes and dislikes. Say hi in the hallways, just so he knows your face. Try to overhear him talking or anything.. talk to him online- its easier than in person... and express his same likes and dislikes.. it sounds lame but it starts a conversation usually. JUst make sure you give it time, don't talk to him too much, etc.. hope i helped girl

peace

Thank you! you helped alot :]

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