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my friend's boyfriend has been harassing me since last year. He keeps doing things to my locker such as smashing a banana on it, putting tape all over, writing all over it, leaving long notes, putting signs with names such as boob girl or b***h etc. He would also spread all these rumors about me and call me all of these names. when my friend tells him to stop he refuses and he said that he wants to hurt me. she wants to protect her boyfriend from being suspended and she is trying to stop me from telling the GLC. He has been doing the same things to other people but they are too afraid of him to speak up. I really want to tell the GLC and take action but would I be doing the right thing by doing that even if I probably won't be friends with her anymore? also, I know that the GLC won't believe me since I don't have enough evidence to prove what he is doing to me. what should I do in this situation? (link)
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No one has a right to be bully, and especially making threats of violence. You need to tell the GLC. Remember this, though: when you go in, you can do so without the knowledge of your friend or this guy. Tell them you are telling them this in strict confidence. Making them aware of the situation, will prompt them to alert others to watch this guy. You don't need evidence to do this. If he is doing things to others, and leaving "visible" clues such as the banana, or signs, then it's much easier for them to bring this guy in and say.. "there have been several people that have noticed these things" and bust him on it. No one has to know it was you or any other of his victims. For all he knows, it could have been some adult that witnessed what he was doing.
Sure, if he's busted, it might be assumed you had something to do with it. Whether you admit to that or not is up to you, but you could just tell him the more crap he pulls, the more chance someone is going to notice and nail him on it. He's creating his own consequences.
Good luck and go report this crap. Don't let this guy bring you down!
G.
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