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Website: Very Slow
Gender: Male
Occupation: Student
Age: 19
AIM: Another Aurelia
Member Since: January 31, 2005
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The guy that I like is about 25 pounds overweight and isnt athetlic at all. I asked him if he wanted to play tennis with me because I have been taking lessons. The whole time we played he critized me, saying mean things like "your stamina is terrible", what kind of lessons have you been taking", and " I thought you would have been way better". He was really upsetting me so finally I said that I was still learning and to give me a break. The thing was that he was a lot worse than me, and I was trying to say nice things to encourage me.
A couple days later he told me that he thought I should lose 15 pounds. I am average, not fat. He is way more overweight than me and I have never said anything to him because I know it would just hurt him. My feelings were very hurt with all his negativity. Should I move on? (link)
Drop him. Drop him like a piece of rectangular construction material, or like a hot skillet-type pan which you picked up accidentally. Only truly exceptional people who would engage in such repugnant behavior in a situation such as described. You could do better if you were fifty years old and a hundred pounds overweight.


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Thankyou!! That comment about me doing better if I was 50 years old and 100 pounds overweight was really funny!




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