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So I have this good guy friend. We dont really hang out outside of school, but we talk all the time in school when we can. Hes in my band class, so we have a few minutes before and after together. He always hugs me, and its like a more than friends hug. He always plays with my hair, tells me I smell good, wants to talk on the phone with me, teases me playfully, etc. He even makes me cute little cards that say things like "if I was in a room with 11 roses and you, I'd be among the 12 most beautiful things in the world" But hes always been a sweetheart. Everyone else notices. They tease us about being married and saying we would be the cutest couple ever. Hes kissed me on the cheek a couple times. But we've always been just friends, neither of us has brought up the subject of being more. well hes treated me this way forever, and I always hear that he likes me. Well the other day, after band, he came and hugged me as usual and was like "what did you do this weekend" (he was still holding me) and I said "it was loooong" he said "Oh really? I spent most of it at my girlfriends house so it went pretty fast for me"

I was shocked. He never told me or stopped treating me the way he does. He still acts like hes in love with me. I dont know whats up. My friend said she thinks hes had a gf for awhile..like a month at least. But thats not for sure, shes wrong a lot. Well I dont know if he honestly thinks of me as just a friend (It sure doesnt seem like it) or if hes doing it to make me jealous (because He seemed like he wanted me to know, the way he said it) because if he is, its definitely working..what do yall think? Thanks in advance!!!!

I'd say he likes you. All the signs are leading towards that. I think he is just trying to make you jelous...tell him how you feel if you feel anything like what you think he is feeling. He obviously likes you there is no denying it.

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