I am 16 and I am a Junior in High School, I currently have my permit as well. I have good grades in school even though sometimes I do slip and I am currently unemployed although I have had a job before. I'm an easy person to talk to and I absolutely love helping people with their problems. I've been through more then even most adults so I know I can relate to most problems. I'm also bi, that will either stop you form accepting me to be able to help you or it won't, its your choice, I'm just like everyone else. I'm going to college for Psychology for adolescents and children. I check my email everyday more then once and I have an AIM and a yahoo and both screen names are posted on here. Please come to me about ANYTHING I'd be happy to help you
E-mail: the_d0ork@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: CT
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
AIM: ichbinrae
Yahoo: domini_mia
Member Since: January 11, 2006
Answers: 7
Last Update: January 13, 2006
Visitors: 1256
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There is a guy who i've just recently became really good friends with this year. Last year he was in one of my classes and we barely talked, but this year we ended up being in four classes together and became really good friends. Plus I found out he lived three houses away from me and we hung out once in a while.
He has a crush on one of my friends, a cheerleader who told me she wasn't interested in him at all and thought he was annoying. He told me she was sending mixed signals, flirting with him then ignoring him. She wanted to hook him up with someone else so he would leave her alone. But she was too nice to tell him that, so she wanted me to hook up with him or at least find someone else to. I was like, wtf? I thought that she was being a little rude when she said that, especially trying to push my friend on me just because she didn't want him liking her.
The next day, he was asking me whether or not he had a chance with her and i debated between telling the truth or saying I had no idea, because on one hand, if i told the truth, he might move on and she wouldnt complain so much , but then I might hurt his feelings. But I finally told him to "get over it" because she thought his actions were annoying and she wanted to hook him up with someone else.
Is what I did right? He seemed a little upset when he heard that she wanted him to go out with someone else, but got over it quickly. I'm afraid I might have hurt his feelings though he didn't say it. Was what i did right? Or was I just meddling in someone else's business? Because if I didn't do anything about it, she would have been too nice to tell him to his face that she didnt like him and keep leading him on. (link)
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You did the right thing, this way he doesn't get even more hurt if you just lead him to believe he still had a chance, now he can move on and to like someone who likes him back I hope I helped message me if you need me
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