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A close male friend of mine broke his foot and now he can't work, he has to wait for it to heal and stays at his house all day. I've been really supportive and have offered to drive him to the hospital but he delcined. Well he has been a total jerk to me since he broke it. At first I could understand him being in a bad mood but then it started to upset me. For ex, I phoned him and was going to ask him if he wanted a visit. I started the converstation by telling him that I was bored, and he YELLED at me and said "how could you be bored"! And never invited me over.
Another time I phoned him and politly asked why he hadnt answered any of my emails, and then he replied "I don't sit around all day on my computer"!!
He normally isnt like this, I know it must be a drag to have a broken foot and be out of work, but he doesnt have to take it out on me I'm just trying to be nice.
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Insist on helping him even though he deny's it,if he askes you why do you still want to help even though he doesn't want it tell him because you care about him, and that's what friends are for.Have a relative or his mom talking to him to help you out to get closer to him,that you really care about him,he shouldn't be taking his anger on you or others who care about him that is just messed up.When you talk to him you should really talk to him in person about this situation telling him why does he act different with you,how it made you feel,and that you really want you too to get along well,have a close friendship again.I'm pretty sure he will be sorry for how he treated you so mean.
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