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I'm a 16/f and I've liked this guy for 4 years now, ever since one of my friends dated him. Just in the past 8 months we've been talking and spending time together. Around August we stopped talking until just recently. I asked my friend for advice on what to say to him because I'm super shy. But now since it's Winter Break and he isn't busy with school or work much. So the other night I went over to his house. He kind of pressured me into having sex, I'm not complaining or anything because I wanted my first time to be with him but I just didn't imagine it being then. My friend keeps telling me that's the only reason he talks to me is because he wants to have sex, since we didn't talk for a long time until the topic of sex came up. I'm really confused with him. When I'm with him it's almost like I'm memorized by him and make myself believe that he has feelings for me. But on the other hand I can see where my friend is coming from when she says he's using me, she's my best friend and doesn't want to see me hurt. What do you think? I don't want to be someone he only calls when he's horny. I'm not that type of girl. (link)
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Most guys use girls. I'm in the same situation, only the sex hasn't actually happened yet. He tells me he likes me and stuff but we only talk about sex. I can't tell if he really means it when he says he likes me, or not. But in your case, maybe the guy likes you and at the same time, wants to have sex with you. As far as a relationship with him goes, as long as you're giving him what he wants without being "together", he most likely won't ask you out. By this I mean, if sex is what he wants, he's getting it without being your boyfriend so chances are he'll want to remain friends. Sorry if this doesn't make sense to you. You need to ask him straight up if he likes you or not. Tell him not to lie to you. Say "Not that this affects anything that we do together, but do you like me?" that way he thinks you can still have sex if he doesn't like you. If he just says "i like you" then, he might not be telling the truth. You should be able to tell.
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