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Ok, well my boyfriend, well I guess, ex-boyfriend and I broke up today. He told me that lately he's been confused about how he feels towards me as in like which way he likes me and all. And he's still really confused and he says he doesn't know why, he sayed this happens whenever he starts to really like someone alot. He's the first person I can actually say I love. I'm still very much in love with him, and it hurts. I don't know why he is so confused. Did I do something wrong? We've been going out for four months ever since december the 4th. I just don't understand this and it's killing me. What's wrong with me, what did I do, what can I do? (link)
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I read this post a couple time, I was thinking that maybe the root of your BF confusion is a fear of getting to close. I know that many people, men, women, girls and boys alike have some kind of fear, of maybe getting to close. In some instances they fear they are not sure if they want to let go of their freedom when It comes to dating. Time doesn't seem like the issue here, even if your bf may miss you or not, You should not have to be strung along for a ride that is killing you inside. I'd say the best thing to do, is to sit him down, and tell him exactly how you feel about the issue. If he doesn't agree, and is still very confused then the best thing is to let him go, maybe he will see clearly and come back to you. You dont deserve to be feeling like a side dish. Maybe you can get him to tell you exactly what is bothering him, because confusion has to stem from something. The best of luck to you. Hope everything turns out for the best.
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Thanks I might be seeing him today.
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