Hey yall! I'm 15 and I love to listen to people and help them in any way I can. I love knowing that I'm helping someone or making a difference in someone's life. Even if it's just telling you what color shirt to wear ; ) I have been through some things.. and I'm very opinionated but yet very open-minded. I think I give pretty good advice, but hit me up and ask me some questions and I'll let you decide!
Gender: Female
Location: Illinois
Age: 15
AIM: SweetAbs2
Member Since: December 1, 2005
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To start off, i'm only 15 years old. I've been with my boyfriend for five months. We just recently broke up, and a week after our break up he got a new girlfriend. I was really upset for awhile, and I couldn't even eat because of it. I cried just about every day. I constantly think about him, and regardless of how bad he treats/has treated me, I still have an enormous amount of feelings for him. I don't know why I can't get over him. My friend told me "If you can't get over him, maybe there's a reason". Is it possible I'm in love? Or what is it that I'm feeling? And why can't it go away? (link)
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Well first off... It's very possible you're in love...
I've been there before... It takes a long time to get over a relationship like that-me and my ex-boyfriend broke up in August of 2004 and I still have feelings for him. It's just something that needs time. He has a new girlfriend now too and I hated her for the longest time for no reason, but now I see that even though I still have feelings for him there's a reason we aren't together. It takes a lot of time and healing but eventually you'll see that you're okay without him. Just let it burn and try to surround yourself with friends and things you like to do. Don't jump into another relationship too fast because that could possible hurt you even more or hurt someone else. Just take time to realize that it was something great, but all great things end sometimes. It will probably even make you stronger in the end. I hope you feel better soon and I hope I helped a little bit!
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Thanks, you definetly helped me a whole lot. It's good to know I'm not the only experiencing these kind of feelings!
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