Gender: Female
Age: 14
AIM: Lucky12 101
Member Since: December 2, 2004
Answers: 72
Last Update: December 12, 2007
Visitors: 4882
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im 16.. im in love with a guy that is 15. we went out for 4 months. but ive known him for almost 3 years now. i lost my virginity to him. one day we did it and everything was normal. the next day he calls me and says, "lets take a break, then when i think we are ready to make this a serious thing ill ask you back out." i was just like um okay? well then a couple days later i hear hes going out with some chick from his school. so hes "taking a break with me" to go out with some other chick. that really hurt me. because im in love with him. well i saw him and he didnt say anything to me. he kept like 10 feet away from me. and i was pissed off about the whole situation. then the next day i call him to talk about everything going on and he called me a b**** and i was like why are you calling me that? and he was like i heard what you said to people last night about me. i was like what did you hear? hes like you just trash-talked about me the whole night to my friends and family. and he hung up on me. so i call him back and left him a message, because he didnt answer, and i was crying and i said "the only thing i said to anyone was that i was in love with you". and that is the first time i told him how i felt about him. ive never told him i was in love with him before. and i havent heard from him since. what should i do about this whole situation and the next time i see him? and i see him quite often because my mom works for his dad. i dont know what to do PLEASE help. this may turn into suicide. he was the only thing i had. (link)
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LOOK...I KNOW THAT YOUR IN LOVE WITH HIM BUT YOU HAVE ONLY 2 OPTIONS.....
1. YOU CAN TALK TO HIM AND TELL HIM THAT YOU WONT GET MAD ABOUT WHATEVER HE SAYS. IF YOU JUST SIT HIM DOWN IT MIGHT WORK.
2. YOU CAN GET OVER HIM AND FIND A NEW GUY. NOW I'M SURE THAT YOU'VE TRIED TO DO THAT BUT KEEP YOURSELF BUSY. EXERCISE, READ A BOOK, HANG OUT WITH FRIENDS, WATCH TV, ANYTHING....HAVE SOMETHING (ANYTHING) TO HANG ON TO WHILE UR TRYING TO LET HIM GO. OR JUST COMPLETELY try TO AVOID SEEING HIM, LIKE IF YOU KNOW YOUR GOING TO SEE HIM JUST GO TO THE LIBRARY OR A MOVIE OR SOMETHING.
***DONT KILL YOURSELF.....IT IS NOT THE ANSWER..YOU CAN HAVE SUCH A GOOD LIFE IF YOU PUT THIS BEHIND YOU AND FOCUS ON THE FUTURE...
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