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Hi, I'm a young 50 year old father of three (two sons one 5 and one 21, and a daughter of 31) from Romford, England. I have a lot of experience of life from both the good and bad sides, the good side when I was singing in bands almost every night and my life was one long party, and the bad side having to admit I'm an alcoholic and doing a hard rehab/detox programme (sober for 10 years now) then having a heart attack and a broken marriage to deal with. I am now in a good place in my own mind and want to help others as much as I am able to.
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I'm 19 years old and I still look like I'm in my preteens. My body hasn't fully matured and I'm pretty much coming to terms with that. My question is as follows:

What physical characteristics (other then large breasts) most define a woman?

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I think what you have to remember and understand is that, despite what is pumped at us through every form of media, EVERY woman, and indeed EVERY person, is different and there is no particular way that you HAVE to look to define your sexual identity. Being a woman depends much more on how you feel, if you feel like a woman then you will project that in your atitude and behavour. Try not to get too hung up about your physical appearance, and remember everybody developes at different rates and not every woman has large breasts, but these are not bad things.

You have your whole life ahead of you, take your time and don't try to rush through life.


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Thanks :) You made me feel loads better!




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