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Q: In order to know the real me, you have to know me well. I'm usually shy around people that i know know that much. This sucks cuz im a totally fun person! No one knows who I am!! ALl the guys of course want fun girls to go out with. I'm not ugly because people have told me (not my close friends) that im pretty. A hott boy even said so himself! I just wish people could see the real me. Does anyone have this problem? CAn anyone help me??
Sometimes you may have to force yourself out of your comfort level and be more outgoing and more the real you in public. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain if that is the case. Its normal to be shy especially around cute guys, but wouldn't you just want to kick yourself it you didn't get the guy you like to notice you, because you weren't being the real you around him?
Good luck, it may be hard at first, but i think it will work out.

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