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Q: So, yeah, I haven't updated to you in awhile. Well, alot has happened. Well, by the way my name is Sarra, if you could guess from the user name, and his name is Dallas. Well, after the whole thing of him making out with me, we were talking on the computer and he brought it up. Saying, "Sorry about the other day, it'll never happen agian." So I go, "Ok...can talk to you about this later?" (Because I was going to see him later at a friend's house.) So I later pull him aside and ask him about it, he is still blind and doesn't realize that I loved when he kissed me, and that my whole went numb. (Yeah, I like him that much.) So he says that he just really wanted to kiss someone, and he figure since I also hadn't been seeing or kissing anyone in a while that, why not? And he figure since we had beening joking about lately and he knew that he could trust also why not? Well I felt like sick to my stomach knowing that he thought that it was fine to do that to me. So we haven't talked about it since, and get this, now he has a girlfriend while he still clearly has feelings for his ex. (Even if he doesn't want to admit.) I need help! Thanks.
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Thats a tough one. Its really hard when you are hung up on a guy and he has no clue about your feelings. I think the best thing to do right now it keep your distance from him. Being around him will only end up hurting more in the short term and you also run this risk of saying something you may regret later because your feelings are so raw right now. If Dallas has a clue he'll see that you've been distant for a while and try and talk to you. If he asks you directly whats wrong I think you can tell him the truth that you thought that the kiss maybe meant more because you started to have feelinsg for him and what he said afterwards unintentionally hurt. I think that will blow him away. After that, the ball is in his court. You can't force someone to like you, but you can at least have some control of your feelings and the situation. I bet you are a great girl and if not him, then another guy will really adore you. Please keep me posted. take care. xoxooxo
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thanks, i'll be sure to update at a later date.
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Just some common sense advice in this crazy messed up world.
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Gender: Female Location: New York, NY Member Since: October 8, 2005 Answers: 156 Last Update: February 9, 2006 Visitors: 12077
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