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Sorry If Its Long!!! .. Well here it goes

Ok well theres this guy .. well call him cody.
well me and cody have know each other for like almost 2 years. and over the summer we talked about how we liked each other .. and he kind of i guess strung me along for like 2 months .. sayin he liked me but wouldn't do anything about it, but when i asked if i should juss forget it he told me not to b/c he liked me ..

he said he'd call nd he said we'd hang out but he kept blowin me off and not callin but he "liked me" so i guess he thought it was ok. so i left him a message on aim sayin to call me so we coudl talk about it .. yahh well he got the message but didnt call. so we stopped talkin for like 3 weeks .. like i was pissed. and he knew it but didnt try to make it better.

soo halloween night me him and my friend kev chels and jenn all hung out. i didnt know he was gonna be there or else i wouldn't have gone. but we ended up having so much fun and i laughed the whole time .. all the feelings i thought i was over .. came rushing back soo fast!!!


so we talked about it and we talked online the next day and he told me he liked me and everything. so 2 nights ago we hung out and went to funspot and all of us were in a guy named brody's truck. i was like practically sittin on top of him the whole like 1 and a half ride, and he had his arm around me and stuff.
- - but when we were driving home kevie (the other guy who was there) was like "so cod are you 2 like goin out now. and codys like no. and kev was like wait what. how come? and codys like you heard me .. i didnt stutter ..

i juss dont get him .. so we talked nd hes like i REALLY like you, i honestly do i juss dont want a girlfriend .. but he told kevin that he didnt even like me at all .. hes pissing me off b/c hes not even tellin me the truth .. and i just wanted an honest answer

Hey!
That sounds alot like what one of my friends is going through. She's been talking to this kid joe for a while..and she seriously likes him..he tells her that "they are going to go out soon" and its been a couple of months since he told her that and nothin has happened..she comes to class crying like every day and it really sucks..because i know she is hooked on him..she wants to just forget about him (if nothing is gonna happen) but then he reasures her that they will be a couple soon..so she holds on a little bit longer and gets more attatched.
You need to tell "cody" exactly how you feel. No girl should be played around with like this. Personally, i think you should forget about him. If he's this confusing now..imagine how hard hes going to be to deal with in a relationship.
There are so many better guys out there. You dont want one thats going to be telling you that he loves you..and then turning the corner and denying all his feelings for you to his friends. Thats just not right.
basically,
just do what YOU think is right
go with your gut feeling
pce :)

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(Rating: 5) thanks :) that helped alot. do u think u could let me know what your friend does .. since the situation is so similar and i can use ANY help .. like if things work out or she lets him go or w/e .. let me know at my advice thing what_we_call_a_tragedy_0x or im me or something alyssa05x .. itd help alot thanks :)
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