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Ok,for Halloween my friend Lisa suggested I dress up as a French Maid.And I did,I went the whole nine yards shaved legs,high heels,makeup everything.Now all my friends think I'm gay.The worst part of all this is that I really enjoyed being all dressed up.I had a long talk with Lisa about this and she said the reason why she suggested the costume was because she always thought I was a bit girly she said if I wanted to she will help me shop for clothes and stuff.The problem is if I do this everyone will def think I'm gay.I'm so confused I just don't know what to do.Thanks for Listening. (link)
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Dear Friends,
First of all, a Halloween costume is supposed to be fun and outrageous. After all you are hiding from the demons on All Hallows Eve. Hahaha
I commend you for going all the way, shaved legs and all. Who cares what your friends think of you. If they do not like you for who you are, gay or not, they do not deserve to be your friends.
Just because you dressed up like woman does not make you gay. Stop thinking that. To be considered gay you must be physically attracted to the same sex. So what if you are? If you are not attracted to the same sex but enjoy wearing womens clothes, then you are a transvestite, not gay.
Your friend Lisa seems like a good friend who is willing to accept you for who you are. Go shopping with her and have a good time. Stop caring what your other friends think, if they are really your friends then they will accept you no matter what your choice of clothing may be. If they cannot accept you, then you don't need friends like them anyway.
Take care, hope I helped :)
Sincerely,
Honestymatters
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Thanks for the good advice,I'm gonna go shopping with Lisa and just enjoy myself.
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