im 14/f and sooo many people have asked me that question. it is actually very simple. the bad boys are spontanious and arent afraid to express their feelings. honestly...think about this question. When you want to tell a girl you like her, do u think about it for a long time or just go out and say it? Well chances are, if you are a gentleman, you would think about it for a LONG time and make sure she likes you back. A "bad boy" would just go out and tell her, and girls like that, they really don't like to wait around for a guy to come up to her and tell her that he likes her. But i think that IT IS GREAT that you are a gentleman. Gentleman are the ones who will succeed in finidng a marriage and long term relationship later in their life. It may not seem like it now, but you will find a girl that loves you for who you are, and your personality. Mabye you could just try to be a little more bold. Take little steps. For example, if you like a girl, go up to her and say, "hey..i like you, i think your awesome and beautiful, would you want to go out with me sometime?" it may seem hard to get it out, but go in front of the mirror and look at yourself. look yourself in the eye and say, "i am so handsome. any girl would be lucky to have me. i will ask this girl out with confidence. if she says no, then i will know one thing about that girl, she doesnt deserve me..because I am the best guy out there.
=] i hope i helped!
-Josi
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