Gender: Female
Location: Missouri
Member Since: September 6, 2005
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Last Update: October 24, 2005
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okay..me & my b/f have been together for a year n 7 months..and today i was telling him how i felt about us at this point..and the way i feel is i love him but im kinda getting tired of him..because weve been together for soo long..and i feel trapped..like i HAVE to go with him..then he started crying..and he got pissed AND HE WAS LIKE MAN YOU MUST REALLY NOT KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU I WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF MY FUCKIN LIFE WITH YOU AND THATS REAL TALK IAND I PUT THAT ON EVERYTHING I OWN & LOVE..AND IM LIKE I LOVE YOU TOO and i started to say that i wanted to spend the rest of my life with him too..then he cut me off & then hes all like NO dont tell me that cuause when you love somebody you dont get tired of them..and i dont want you to feel "trapped"(he said it sarcastically) and im like oh my gosh please dont do this to me..and he just got pissed and hung up on me..and i tried to call him back but he wouldnt answer..i called him like 10 times..literally..but he wouldnt answer..and now im soo saad im crying my eyes out because i think its really over this time..but i dont want it to be..cause i really love him but i had to be honest..and i really dont know what to do..should i keep calling him or give him time to cool off..and call tomorrow..or should i wait until he calls me...or do you have any other suggestions?I AM SOOO CONFUSED..
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Give him some time to be alone. I think you need it to. Now I don't know how much you two actually see each other but if you wanted some time alone he doesn't need to be pissed about that. Your words would hurt anyone. They should of been placed differently. Then again guys are not as dumb as they used to be. (Which is sad. *gestures to the world around her*) Below is a list of things you should try.
1) Call him every ten minutes.
2) Email him every ten minutes.
3) IM him (You didn't guess it) all you can
4) Do all of the above.
5) Make sure he knows you really do love him. A good way to show this would be to make him a nice picnic or something and have it in the park. Or somewhere like that.
6) CALM DOWN!!!
7) Listen to your heart. If he does love you then he wont let something like this get in the way.
8) Be sure to give him space and whenever you need space just tell him that you'd like to do certain things on your own.
9) When you do get a chance to talk to him tell him that you are sorry and that you miss him terribly. (I am assuming you do btw) Ask him if he is willing to give you another chance. After all in the end one of you will come crawling back and I am letting you know that he should not be the one doing the crawling.
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Now I don't know you and only know what Dakota has told me. You should really listen to yourself in this matter. I simply tell others what they allready know. The real answer lies within you and you alone. You have the choice of listening to me or someone else or yourself. For the record it is allways you that makes these decisions not anyone else. There are crossing points in life where one must choose which way to go. You chose this way and now you must deal with the pain. I hope you find my advice to be usefull despite the fact that it is things you allready knew. -ask2receive
P.S. What I am about to say is OTR (Off the record). No matter what path you choose they will all have something bad to them.
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OH MY GOSH!!! u are brilliant..THANKYOU SOO MUCH!!omg u are..omg im speechless!!! but once again thankyou..oh and btw we got back together :) so YAY!!
-thanks alott
xOxO--Janee`
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