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Age: 16
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There's this boy that I've known ever since 5th grade (we are in 9th grade) we are very close besides the fact that I NEVER SPENT TIME WITH HIM BESIDES SCHOOL!!! Yea we would talk on the phone, text and stuff but, I would LOVE to go somewhere with him one day but there are 2 problems:
1.) I am afraid that if I am alone with him, he might put the moves on me and we might have sex! (Only a kiss will do)
2.) I am afraid that if I go to the movies with him or something, that he might try and play me by taking me somewhere far, leaving me alone or embarrassing me.
What can I do to overcome my shyness and how do I explain to him that I am shy?
P.S. I gave him some excuses! I don't want to seem like a liar or that I don't want to be with him because I DO! it would be like a DATE or something.. My FIRST date! (link)
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Date- when two couples go out. If yall are friends it would considered chillin together but if yall are a couple then its a date. Now if a kiss is the only thing it takes before he gets in them pants then something wrong. You need to learn how to control your hormones andbody but thats of topic. Now if he tells you that he is not going to do anything you gonna have to trust him. Just tell him that your a shy girl and that you dont wanna think nuttin more but friends going to the movies. Then if he tries to kiss you just tell him no. and keep doing that If you can control yourself and if you know your boundaries everything should be ok.
Hoped i helped atleast alittle.
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