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Q: hey, so i'm going to remind you of my story in case you forgot. i like this friend of mine that i have known since 6th grade and i didn't know what to do about it. you said to keep flirting and see what happens, no need to make things more weird for me. well your advice was better than i thought. yesterday, the both of us went to a friend's house and he kissed me when ever our friend left the room. so we ended up makingout twice, but he said to keep it between the two of us. well really that is not a problem with me. but what is, is that i don't know what this means and i don't know how to talk to him about it. because really like him i want to kiss him again. any ideas on what to do?
Of course I remember you. I had a feeling something like this would happen. I'm glad he kissed you. I do think that if you have a chance to talk, hopefully alone, and not on the phone or IM and discuss it. Don't say anything like so do you like me or what because I like you... That could freak him out. Say something like, so that was fun the other day. My guess is he'll try and kiss you again. Go for it, but ask what his feelings are before he does. Dont pressure him because as you mentioned you two are friends so that is nervous territory. take it slow and maybe enjoy the secret hook ups for a while. see what happens. It could be really great, but i'm sure its kind of scary for both of you as friends. I think its going to be good.
Definitely keep me posted.

thanks i'll keep you posted!

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