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Gender: Male
Location: Cincinnati Ohio
Occupation: Student
Age: 17
AIM: Kipskywalk
Member Since: October 16, 2005
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Well ima keep this short............
Well i liked this guy ( ricardo) for three going on four years now( he has never really liked me in that way). we go to this high school together, it has really small there is only 16 people in the ninth grade( me included ). Well he likes my friend (tyler) and we are really close ( she knows i like him)........................here is the delema........................................they like each other! what do i do ! they dont go out but they come to me and tell me " i like him.................i like her". what do i do. i dont want to lose any friends but i wouldnt mind becoming closer to ricardo. please help ill rate high! (link)
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It sounds like part of the reason you might like Ricardo is because he's something you can't have. It's human nature to want what we can't have. That doesn't solve you're problem though, because I know it's hard to get over somebody no matter what the reason you like them is. The only consolation I can offer is that if you reach out and try to find another guy (which will probably be difficult since there's only 16 people in your grade) you will quickly realize how foolish you were for liking him only because you can't have him. It all likelyhood, he may even been leading you on a bit because he knows you won't stop liking him. I may be wrong, but I've been in and around situations like this for quite some time, and this is almost always the case. Personally, if two of my friends liked each other, I'd tell them to go out and just suck it up, but you may be less inclined to do so. If you like him that much, however, you'd want him to be happy no matter the cost to you. It's prolly not what you wanted to hear, but just something to think about. This is only advice after all. Think about it, hope I helped out. Let me know if you have any other questions or problems :)
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Rating: 5
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u r totally awsome like i love u man u totally understand me it is hard for me in like crying right now! love u
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