Hey, I'm Andrew. Now by all means I'm no Dr.Phill but alot of my friends turn to me for advice and comfort for problems and my advice has seemed to help in the past so hey give me a shot, got nothing to loose :)
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Location: New york
Occupation: pot head
Age: 16
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Member Since: October 14, 2005
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Ok soo I dont know where else to really turn now. My boyfriend moved back to his home state, which is 3 1/2 hours from where I live, and we broke up 3 days before he did to "make things easier" or so he says. He didnt want to try a long distance relationship b/c he thought it would be too hard. Well, he is/was the love of my life... I spent the whole summer with him. He was everything to me and he didnt even say good bye when he left which crushed me. Well my life has been going down hill since. I use to be an "a" student, but now my grades are consisting of "c" and "d"... I'm missing school beyond no measure, I've gotten kicked outta my house, I've made my mother cry several times (which is bad b/c my mother is hard to upset that bad), I even had to buy my first pregnancy test (was negative...), I've started to become everything I never wanted to be. I dont know what is up with me, I hate him so much yet my heart is screaming for him... I dont want to give up b/c I love him so much, but its one sided and somethign else kinda love... Any suggestions to how to deal with these feelings would be GREATLY appreicated.. I rate high! (link)
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First off my heart goes out for you it really dose but you shouldnt allow this problem to hurt your familly and most impordantly yourself. I understand completley that it is so hard to "fall out of love" with someone, infact it's nearly impossible. There will always be a tiny bit of you that will have feelings for him but it's time to say goodbye. You should start off by taking some time for yourself to really think deeply about your life and decide what you wanna do. After that get back on the dating scene! You sound like a sweet caring person who will give 110% in a relation and that's excellent. Let go to him and find someone who will make you happy. That's the best I can do if your situation get's worst please get back to me.
-Andrew
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Thanks.. and honestly I'm not trying to hurt my family or myself. That's why I was asking for help, it is sorta just happening. Because I've been so down and irritated I just have been on edge lately, biting everyone's head off. I want time for myself, but when??? I barely have time to breathe with school, figthing with people, and dealing with other people's problems... I try to carry other people when all I want is to be carried. I'm afriad of the dating scene, I don't want to get into a "bad", abusive emotionally relationship and I feel like I'm bound to do that right now. The person who I think can make me happy just had his heart broken and we've been figthing constantly, but he's like my brother.... wow I'm hopeless... but youre sweet!
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