Hello, My name is Eva. I am from a small town in Texas but I currently reside in San Antonio. I have been married forever, have 3 children, and come from a big family. Needless to say, I've been through it. Drop me a line if you would like my advice. I love to help others whenever possible, and I will do my best to help you.
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Last Update: November 11, 2005
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A lot of my friends are very religious, and thus have many different beliefs (religiously, politically, and otherwise) than I do. Lets just say I cried on November 3rd last year (the day after), and they pretty much jumped for joy. Sometimes when I make a comment about issues that are happening in the world they look at me oddly, like I'm a complete idiot or something. They enjoy listening to Ashlee Simpson and the like while I listen to classic rock from the 60's and 70's. In the past this hasn't bothered me much, but lately its been nagging at me a lot. Don't get me wrong. I love my friends to bits, they're the nicest people and so fun to be around, but is it possible to love them as people and completely disregard how different their mentality is from you? Do your beliefs and interests dictate who you are as a person?
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I have always felt that those that are able to celebrate their own individuality are so brave. You dont feel the need to follow the heard like a sheep and that is a good thing because it will be much harder to lead you astray.
As far as being able to maintain friendships with those that view things differently then you, of course you can. We must all respect the beliefs of others. Be a good example for what you believe in. Sometimes that alone helps others to see things your way.
Each day you are around others who view things differently and if at the end of that day you still hold on to what you believe. Despite all opposing thoughts. This only makes you stronger.
We should all love others despite our difference, it can be done. Your beliefs and interests dont have to dictate who you are as a person, as long as you understand that these same beliefs and interests help to shape you into the person you are. We arent a only a result of what we have grown to believe, we are also a result of what we do with that belief.
Eva J
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