Heyy, my name is Brittany. I am sixteen years old, and I was born on the 9th of July. I am very different from most people I know, and I love that! I'm a virgin..I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs and I never have. I am selfish, stubborn, and most people would say I am spoiled. I hate not getting my own way. I dislike liars, and I can't stand being in a moving vehicle without any music playing. I love the color pink, and my favorite number is 39. Country music is my favorite, but I like a little bit of everything. My boyfriend's name is Brandon. I have obsessive compulsive disorder, and I am very paranoid most of the time. I worry a lot. I laugh a lot, and smile even more. I'm very insecure, and can be quite ditzy. I like giving people advice, when I can..My best friend's name is Katie. I am extremely lazy, and tend to be very random.
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Age: 16
AIM: BrittanyMichx39
Member Since: June 17, 2005
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I recently got back together with my ex boyfriend after being broken up for 2 months. I have a naturally clingy personality and I think that might have been something that caused problems in the past. It's not that I'm psychotic by any means, I just like a lot of attention. I don't want to screw this up again... so should I simply ignore my clingy disposition and play hard to get sometimes, even though I already have him back? If so, how should I go about playing hard to get, and how often? I think games in general are stupid but if this will help keep everything romantic and healthy I'm all for it. (link)
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I am the same way. First of all, talk to your b/f about it. Find out why things didn't work in the first place, and what went wrong. Then try to fix things one at a time. Slowly try to grow out of your "clingyness." Talk to him a little less everyday, til you can go a whole day, without talking to him. Then talk to him as much as you want for a while. But don't annoy him by always trying to be with him, or talk to him. He needs time and space away from you as well as you need it away from him. Let him call you, or IM you first. That way he won't think you are like obsessed or something. Getting attention is great, but you can't always get as much as you want from people. I guess what I am trying to say, is just back off of him a little, and see what he does. If he seems to not like the distance, get closer to him again. You just have to try different things, and see what works. Good luck!
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