I GOT BROWN HAIR HAZEL EYES IM 5'2 LOL YEAH I KNOW PRETTY SHORT I HAVE A BF HIS NAME IS JOE I LOVE HIM ALOT HE COMES OVER MY HOUSE LOL IF U KNOW ME ASK ME TO SEE PICS CUZ I GOT SOME!! WELL U CAN ASK ME ANYTHING AND ILL TRY TO ANSWER AS BEST AS I CAN I AM THE BIGGEST MOST HYPER DORK ULL EVER MEET IN UR LIFE MY FRIENDS ALL SAY SO I ACT HAPPY ALL THE TIME EVEN THOUGH IM OBVIOUSLY NOT BUT WHEN U R SAD AND PEOPLE COME UP TO U ASKING U WHATS WRONG IT MAKES IT WORSE I LOVE GIVING PEOPLE ADVICE AND MAKING THEIR LIVES A LIL EASIER TO GET THRU
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Well ive been going out with my bf since June... But weve liked eachother SOOOOOO MUCH before that... I love him and all but i just get aggervated with the way he treats me sometimes. This all happened in July when we all went to a house party.. i got pretty trashed (14/f believe me i learned from my mistakes and theyll never happen again!!) and i ended up making out with this guy.. I didnt even notice i did it until the next morning when i woke up at my house (i had gotten a ride home from my friends bro')... Well anyway so i felt like such a horrible person i even called my boyfriend up and told him what i did... He of course reacted as any man would.. flipping out on me and sh** he even called me a fucking slut and whore... :( :( :( :(.... yeah I know harse... BUT we talked it over like 2 weeks after that and he finally forgave me.. I was so Happy... and see the thing is though whenever the boy who i madeout with comes up (even now and its october) my BF gets all pissed off and doesnt talk to me! or he'll be in a bitchy mood all day and when we hangout he wont kiss me or whatever... errr and its continually.. But then the next day hes all fine and everything. I know he doesnt trust me still.. and it sucks.. ANY IDEAS?? Im tired of this.. I HATE IT SO MUCH!! it makes me feel so low of myself and i cry whenever it happens.. What can i do to stop him from doing this??.. and for me to forgive myself? and how can i let him know he can trust me and that i do love him and it was just a mistake! (link)
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You care and love him enough to ask for advice about it. Try showing him what you wrote and what you asked for advice on. He will see that you love him and not this jerk. Your boyfriend is lucky that you even told him, keeping secrets from your lover gets you nowhere in a relationship. There are going to be times when he does something that he will regret. It happens to all of us, we are only human enough. The truth is, you hurt him even though you didn't want to and yes he is jealous. Show him there's nothing to be jealous or mad about, you love him. Talk all of this over with him and show him how much you love him by simply showing him what you just said. I know it's tough and I hope you and your boyfriend go to the way things used to be. Just remember, don't give up on him yet. He will realize he loves you enough to let your mistakes go by...not the easiest thing to do but it will happen.
*Good Luck* -N- I hope I helped!
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THANK-YOU.. you did help.. Great advice.. Really good actually!! thanks
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