about

i love candy; mainly gummys
i don't know how to swim
i'm a complete and utter gamer. computer, xbox, gamecube and of course, the lovely ps2.
my favorite book is the odyssey.
i'll doodle on anything-- like my math desk.
i love taking pictures.
my favorite animal, are rabbits. in which i own two.
i have newts, and a blind turtle named *drum roll* mr.turtle. although he's blind.
i sometimes wonder if someone will ever love me as much as my dog does.
i suck a relationships - by the way.
i'm a terriable driver
i can't whistle
i'm a blunt person
i tend to grow on you; kinda like bread mold.
i was born in the wrong time period.
i would have fit in better in some ancient castle, or a roman bazar.
i hate chocolate
i'm scared of thunder
i say the word onion weird
i'm completely obvious; example:
when a girl gets stabbed in a movie
"OH MY GOD THAT GIRL JUST GOT STABBED!"
i say like way to much
i talk too much
i won't ever be the skinnest girl.
or the prettiest; but i'm content
i love ddr
i'm hoping to be a graphic/website designer one day
i get along with my dad more than my mom
i play softball; western albermarles varsity pitcher.
i cried during the book to kill a mockingbird;
when i orignally thought the title of the book was Tequila Mockingbird
i love fast food and i know i shouldnt eat it
i can't eat pizza without taking the cheese off first.

i want to be wanted by someone i want =/

advice

Well ive been going out with my bf since June... But weve liked eachother SOOOOOO MUCH before that... I love him and all but i just get aggervated with the way he treats me sometimes. This all happened in July when we all went to a house party.. i got pretty trashed (14/f believe me i learned from my mistakes and theyll never happen again!!) and i ended up making out with this guy.. I didnt even notice i did it until the next morning when i woke up at my house (i had gotten a ride home from my friends bro')... Well anyway so i felt like such a horrible person i even called my boyfriend up and told him what i did... He of course reacted as any man would.. flipping out on me and sh** he even called me a fucking slut and whore... :( :( :( :(.... yeah I know harse... BUT we talked it over like 2 weeks after that and he finally forgave me.. I was so Happy... and see the thing is though whenever the boy who i madeout with comes up (even now and its october) my BF gets all pissed off and doesnt talk to me! or he'll be in a bitchy mood all day and when we hangout he wont kiss me or whatever... errr and its continually.. But then the next day hes all fine and everything. I know he doesnt trust me still.. and it sucks.. ANY IDEAS?? Im tired of this.. I HATE IT SO MUCH!! it makes me feel so low of myself and i cry whenever it happens.. What can i do to stop him from doing this??.. and for me to forgive myself? and how can i let him know he can trust me and that i do love him and it was just a mistake!

You can't really make him trust you. Of course he's going to get pissed when the thought of that guy comes up, he's sensitive to it still. It seems as though it still hurts him to think about it, you can't blame him. It's good that you two can talk about things and he can forgive you the next day, trust me that takes alot of effort to forgive someone after that happens. And don't feel low about yourself, you got drunk and made out wiht another guy, yeh that's pretty bad but people learn from their mistakes. In time he'll trust you but stuff like that takes time to forgive and forget about. Things take time. I'm sorry that it upsets you but with every action is always a positive and negetive outcome.

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(Rating: 5) Aww that was really great advice.. Thank-you!!
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