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Heyy, my name is Brittany. I am sixteen years old, and I was born on the 9th of July. I am very different from most people I know, and I love that! I'm a virgin..I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs and I never have. I am selfish, stubborn, and most people would say I am spoiled. I hate not getting my own way. I dislike liars, and I can't stand being in a moving vehicle without any music playing. I love the color pink, and my favorite number is 39. Country music is my favorite, but I like a little bit of everything. My boyfriend's name is Brandon. I have obsessive compulsive disorder, and I am very paranoid most of the time. I worry a lot. I laugh a lot, and smile even more. I'm very insecure, and can be quite ditzy. I like giving people advice, when I can..My best friend's name is Katie. I am extremely lazy, and tend to be very random.
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Hi, I am a 17 yr old male who has a problem. My g/f head over heels in love with me. She claims, that if she could, she would marry me and have my children. The only thing is that I don't love her. I just like her a lot, but nowhere near to love. I used to say that I love her though I didn't mean it. Over the summer I admitted to her the truth sbout my feelings for her. Thinking this would driver her away, it only brough her closer. She is glad that I am able to tell her the truth on how I feel because she feels it brings us closer. We are curently intimate in the act of sex. I have always wondered if I am in it because of sex. My question is should I stay with her, and if I do, is it right for us to be having sex? (link)
I am currently in a relationship with a guy who claims that he loves me. However I am in the same situation as you are, minus the whole sex part. I am not IN LOVE with him. I do care about him a lot, which in my opinion means that I do LOVE him in some sense of the word. If your g/f understands your feelings for her, and she still does not mind engaging in sexual intercourse with you, then I don't think you need to worry about that. The age that you are in my opinion, is too young to be having sex tho. (My b/f and I are both 16. I plan on staying a virgin til I am married!) If you think that the sex might be keeping you around, stop for a while and see if you still feel the same way about her as you did while you were sexually active with her. If she really loves you, she will understand your reasoning for wanting to stop for a while. (Tell her the truth.) If you don't feel as strongly about her as you did while you were having sex, you might want to consider breaking up with her, and just being friends. Don't lead her on, and lie to her, b/c that is one of the worst things someone in a relationship can do. Good luck!


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maybe i am too young and i worry about getting her pregnant too, i love the sex it definitely keeps me around, my sis says some girls trap u in by giving up their bodies to u, maybe ur both rite, i used to want to stay a virgin till marriage but that all changed once i lost weight and became more confident. I think i did lead her on it took me only one week to make her submit to my sexual desires, thx this helps alot i will try to tal kto her after hc(homecoming)




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