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My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 4 months now. He's sweet and I love him. We make out A LOT but we've never gone farther. Lately we've been talking about it and thought I'd give him a BJ and he'd finger me. I have 2 problems here. I know exactly what a Blowjob is but I dont know how to go about giving one and not sucking at it. I want to pleasure him not make him not want it. And I'm a little (not a lot) overweight so I'm body concious and don't want him to finger me but he obviously does. He knows I'm nervous about all of this and said we'll wait until whenever I'm ready and comfortable enough to do it. I wanna do it so any suggestions on how to give a BJ or not feel so body concious or something. Thanks SO Much.

Hey,
This is how you make a blowjob pleaseurable to your boyfriend. Make sure your mouth isn't dry,(sometimes it can get dry)so when it does just drink something. If you want you can put a condom on him...To protect from any desease. You don't have to put one on if you trust the guy. It's up to you. The guy doesn't really like it all that much, because it doesn't feel the same for them. They don't feel as much, but don't let that scare you.


Frist you want to feel comfortable about it, and with him. You want to take his penis in your hand. You can rub it if you want to get the feel of it. You don't have to just put it in your mouth, don't worry about that. Once you get ok with it and want to start, take your tongue and gently lick on the tip of his penis. You can also lick around it, Kind of a teasing thing.


Then you would want to take it and put it in your mouth, make sure your mouth is open and not just kind of open. Softly suck on the tip of his penis, move your mouth down farther when you are ready to. Move up and down on his penis, this will make it more pleaseurable for him.


If you don't want to go all the way down on him, you don't have to. Just put your hand at the bottom on his penis and softly but frimly hold your hand there. When you are moving up and down on his your mouth wont go any farther then where your hand is. Make sure you suck on it as you move up and down. You will know when to you faster by his moan. If he doesn't moan that don't mean you are doing it wrong. Some guys don't moan. He will let you know when to move faster if you don't know.


Make sure you let him know up front that you are new at this and make sure you are comfortable with him and he is with you. If you need anything more, just email me again.


Good Luck,
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(Rating: 5) Thanks =) that helps a lot. like a lot a lot!!! we're getting together this weekend. if it doenst happen this weekend it will the next 1 but i'll email you! lol
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