Heyy, my name is Brittany. I am sixteen years old, and I was born on the 9th of July. I am very different from most people I know, and I love that! I'm a virgin..I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs and I never have. I am selfish, stubborn, and most people would say I am spoiled. I hate not getting my own way. I dislike liars, and I can't stand being in a moving vehicle without any music playing. I love the color pink, and my favorite number is 39. Country music is my favorite, but I like a little bit of everything. My boyfriend's name is Brandon. I have obsessive compulsive disorder, and I am very paranoid most of the time. I worry a lot. I laugh a lot, and smile even more. I'm very insecure, and can be quite ditzy. I like giving people advice, when I can..My best friend's name is Katie. I am extremely lazy, and tend to be very random.
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i need help. okay, i've been with my boyfriend for a while now, but there's a small little problem that i'm having in our relationship. i love him to death and i know that he feels the same way, but when he talks to other girls.. i often get jealous and feel as if he's going to leave me for this girl even though i know they are just friends, i feel like maybe he sees something more in the girls he talks too. i feel this way because in the past, every guy i was with.. left me for another girl or was seeing another girl behind my back. i just got used to it & so now everytime i get into a new realtionship, i feel as if the same thing is going to happen even though i know all guys aren't the same, it's just something that sort of stuck in my mind. i expect guys to leave me.. i guess it's so i won't get hurt like i did in the past. i've talked with my boyfriend about this and he understands why i feel like this because of past experiences but he always reassures me that there is nothing going on because he doesn't want any other girl in this world besides me & that he loves me more than i could imagine. i mean, we've even talked about spending the rest of our lives together. i don't always have this problem when i'm with him.. but then there are times when i do. i hate it a lot because i really don't wanna feel this way, i TRY to tell myself "hes not gonna leave you" and it works half the time but then other time it doesnt and i get really upset. just so you know, i do BELIVE that he loves me, i don't doubt that.. it's just i really don't know how to explain it. maybe someone knows where i'm coming from. the point is, is there anyway i can convince myself that he's not going to leave me? is there anything at all i can do? or am i gonna be stuck feeling like this for the rest of my life because of what has happened to me in the past? (link)
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It is normal to get jealous when your b/f is with other girls. But don't you think that if he wanted to leave you, he would have already? I mean you two have been together for 6 months, and I'm sure he didn't just start talking to girls 2 weeks ago. Ya know what I'm saying? If he doesn't have a past of cheating on girls, or liking a lot of different girls (especially at the same time), then I think you should be fine! If he tells you that he loves you, and that he cares about you..and you can honestly say that you believe it..then I think you will be fine! You have to understand however, that MOST high school relationships don't always last forever! You are going to get your heart broken a few times, and you are also going to break a few hearts yourself. That's just part of life! I get the same way tho, only over everything! I get jealous so much, it's not even funny. But you (and I) just have to learn to tell ourselves that not everyone is out to hurt us, and that maybe it will last this time. When you feel jealous just try to talk to your b/f about it, and tell him how you feel. He probably gets jealous when you talk to guys too! Another thing that might help you figure out if he wants to or is going to break up with you for another girl is to see if he acts the same way towards you when the other girl is around or in the picture, as he does when you two are alone. If he treats you bad, or tries to show off in front of the other girl by being cocky to you, or whatever the case may be..that could be a sign that he wants attention from her. If you need anything else, just let me know and I'll see what I can do to help you out! Good luck!
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