Member Since: September 27, 2005
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Last Update: September 27, 2005
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okay, I am 21 and still a virgin. I have done other stuff just not had sex yet. The thing is I was almost raped by one of my ex boyfriends and I am kind of scared of guys now, not all but some of them. I feel really pathetice because I am still a virgin and I am 21. Plus my uncle has aids and that is another reason why I am scared. I don't have a bf right now but am looking for one. When I do find one and we have sex how can I make myself less scared to have sex? Is there anything I can do to calm myself down?
any help will be great, guys and girls (link)
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Hi.
Well sorry to hear about the past, but all I say you can do is when you find the boyfriend. Make sure you trust him 100% and then tell him your concerns.
He will understand i he loves you, not wants you for lust. I lost my virginity at 20! I am 21 now. But I done that through lust so make sure YOU are ready.
Hope this helps
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thanks so much for the advice. I thought I was the only one that was a virgin close to my age. I am sorry that you lost it through luse and not love, but thanks for helping me.
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