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Hey, I'm Melody! I've been giving advice on and off since 2003. I'm a 23 year old military wife, expecting a baby boy in August, and working on my Bachelor's degree. :)
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my mom grounded me for having sex...im 16...wtf...i can do what i want, im almost an adult...sex doesnt have to be about love...how can i make my mom get me out of the house, i want to continue having sex and doing fun shit while i still can...*jer*
You need to chill.
Take this from your mother's point of view. How would you feel knowing your daughter was having sex? You wouldn't like it, I can pretty much guarentee.
For you to almost be an adult, you are being very childish. Sex makes babies. You know that right? If you want to enjoy the fun shit while you still can, having a baby at 16 isn't a good way.
Maybe you should try having a civilized conversation with your mother about it. You whining about having sex isn't a good way to convince her you are mature enough for it.
You owe your mother respect. She raised you, and apparently cares about you, because if she didn't she would allow you to go out and have sex with just anyone.
Sex is about love. Having sex just for the pure hell of it is stupid. If you don't love a person, but have sex with them anyway, you know what that means?
Come on you know the answer, you're almost an adult now, remember?..
A Slut.
I am in no way calling you a slut, but the way you are acting seriously suggests it. I mean think about it. =] You need to use your head and give your mom a break.
I also know you are probably still going to have sex, so when you do be sure to go get birth control and use condoms. You have no idea what some guy could have, no matter where you live.
I hope you get some sense
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