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my mom is kinda a control freak...
She won't let me shop with anyone but her. .not my dad, any of my friends.. or anyone.
She has to even be in the same department with me...
I only have a pair of jeans and two pairs of (very very ugly) capris that don't fit right.. so I really need to go shopping. She always says that she's too busy or that i don't need anything. I keep explaining to her that I need to go shopping because I am lacking in things to wear.. and she always makes up excuses. I'm also afraid that if we go shopping that she won't let me wear what I want to wear (low rise jeans and form-fitting baby t's) because she wants me to wear things from the girls section still. And when we went into aeropostale (once) she made me buy everything a size too big so I pray that it will shrink. I just don't want to look like i'm too poor to buy clothes.
HELP ME!!!!! PLEASE!!!!!!
13/f (if it helps size 1/3 and shirts small) (link)
Stand up to your mom tell her how she is making you feel,that you are free to wear what you want to wear it's your body,why can't she be a good mom by not telling you what to wear.If you have someone older than you who agrees with how your mom is whatever you said she is then tell that person to help you out if you don't convince her.It's ridiculous why won't she let you shop with your dad either,ask her why,try to insist to let you choose what you want to wear,even show her that you really need to shop for more clothes so she would have no other choice but to buy you clothing.About the size of your clothing she wants to make you wear just tell her straight forward that the size will not look good on you,if she gets mad well she shouldn't because it is you who will be the one to wear it not her besides doesn't she have better things to do than try controlling other peoples lifes she should know better than that!


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thanks so much that's the perfect answer!




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