Member Since: September 17, 2005
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Last Update: October 9, 2005
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this can get tricky so listen carefully.
okay, i am bisexual and i have a gf, i love her but i would rather be with a guy. but she doesnt know it yet. meanwhile i like this guy in school and he is so cool, i would love to get with him but i dont know how to tell my gf that i would rather be with him. later in life my ex-girlfriend calls me saying she loves me and she wants to go out with me.i told her i was bi, and also i would rather be with a guy but she does not want to accept that, she is crying saying why cant i be straight and stuff like that. I am so confused right, i dont know if i should stay with my good looking gf, go back out with my ex-girlfriend who could help turn me straight, or go with the guy i had in mind??? i really need ya'll help this is sooooo confusing!! if it helps i am 15 yrs old. i would rate really high if you give me a good answer!!! (link)
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I'm just going to assume that you're a guy here..
First of all, do you really want to be straight? If you're perfectly fine with being bi, then don't go and try to change yourself. Also, love is such a strong word for being 15. You have plenty of time to find the right person for you, so don't freak out too much if you think you've made the wrong decision.
With that said. Don't stick with you're girlfriend just because she's good looking, and don't get together with a guy just because he's cool. Go with whoever you think you'd best get along with, and don't forget you can still be friends without being in a relationship! It's never one or the other.
Hope this helps, PK
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thanks for the advice! it really helps, i am currently with my girlfriend, but i really hope to get a boyfriend just to explore! thanks again!
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