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Ok yesterday at lunch he decided to come and bother me and my friends (with his 2 friends) and EVERYBODY was like can you leave bcuz they HATE him and SO they wouldnt.... SO we all moved to a diff. table so when i got home i was iming him asking him why he was so immature and shit and he was calling me a bitch and never to talk to him again and that hed die if i ever got a BF (loser)... SO he blocked me and today at lunch i walked by his table coming from the snackbar and he and those two friends screamed "slut" as i walked by and they were all laughing and shit... WHAT DO i do hes my frigin cousin and he totally embarassed me in front of this BOY I LIKE and everything...

There's two things here. He's disrupting your learning environment (the lunchroom still counts) and that's plain harassment. Talk to both your parents and school counsellor/principal. Bloodline is absolutely no excuse for being an asshole.
He wants to block you on IM? So be it, you can block him too, he doesn't need to talk to you if he can't make a decent conversation.
Obviously he has personal issues and it may just be that you seem like an easy target because he knows you (and is related to you). Let him know that those "games" aren't acceptable by reacting as you should with any guy who puts out this shit - see first paragraph.

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