Im not here to tell everyone my life story. Im here to give advice to people who ask for it. I will only give them the truth and what they need to hear. Im not dishonest and i dont critize people. But i would love to give you advice. =)
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So this girl I'm not friends w/ anymore got REALLY SKINNY and she thinks she needs to lose a couple more pounds when she's really tall and is like 20 lbs under weight!!! Her friends (that I'm still friends w/) tell me that she hasn't been eating much anymore and I'm worried about her but I don't want to get involved in it bc technically it's none of my business since I ended the friendship (although the girl doesn't seem to realize this) And her friend told me that a bunch of people tried talking to the girl's mom about her not eating and her mom didn't do anything about it. We're all concered but aren't obsessing over it yet. What should my role in this be? Should I stay out of it or should I talk to her about it??? (link)
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Even if you ended your friendship with her it doesnt mean that you cant get involed. Try to talk to her. Sit her down and express how you feel about her situation. Dont tell her that she needs to stop amd start eating again because thats just going to get her angry. Just tell her that your really worried about her and you want the best for her. Tell her you'll be by her side and if she needs anybody to talk to your there for her. Just see why she is not eating . Give her compliments like "Your looking really nice" " You look amazing!" give her confidence.You never know. and if that doesnt help after a couple of weeks then you will have to talk to her mother about it if it gets even more serious.
Katina*
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